I use to ramble on how a relationship should be 50/50 -she gives her 50% -he gives his 50% together = 100% (hooray! you can do math)
WRONG. I AM TOTALLY WRONG. THAT IS FALSE!
after a while I began to ponder… A relationship should not be 50/50 it should be 100/100 -she gives her 100% -he gives his 100% together = 200% (again hooray! math!)
but yes in all seriousness, when in a relationship you must give it your all. It shouldn’t be “oh I give my half, so give up yours” or “I put in my fair share so do your part”. No, you have to give it your all and if you are falling short and not willing to push yourself GET OUT OF IT.
Also this is what I hate also “I like you when you were fun.” You’re SO is not a toy. He/She is not an object. When a rocky point in a relationship occurs it is their responsibility to try to work it out and fix a problem. No one likes the “problem solving” portion of a relationship they like the “happy fun” moments. But a relationship is only as strong as the way the handle any problem thrown at it. Guys are not tools girls are not toys, stop using them as objects because they have emotions and feelings.
Gonna cut this rant short. This topic just came up yesterday at a BBQ and I learned a lot. I prefer 200% smh lol just too many young children getting involve in a relationship… like enjoy life. I just don’t want them to feel like they are being tied down at such a young age. e